1- in the upper menu bars you will see an icon, (it's next to your news) (i'll try to describe it ;D)
it's like an arrow above a line with curled edges :D you will see all kinds of drop down menu's in which you can select the things you want to download (if u have the free version , only blue sounds will be available!)
2-a) Assuming you mean taking a random mp3 file and pick like only the piano out of the song . i have to say that that is impossible . only trying to make the same sound with an instrument from FL studio itself is possible
b)If you have a Fruity loops file and you want to change parts of the song can be done in the playlist, there should be all kinds of pink blocks in a pattern, if u change a block's place and play the song , you will hear that the song has changed.
3- getting 2 songs at the same speed means lining up their BPM (beats per minute ) if u set a song to a higher BPM it will go faster but also play faster and sound higher witch mostly completely messes up your song. If u have a bit of a music collection , you can go and search 2 songs with the same BPM. A good software for seeing the BPM is the "MixMeister BPM Analyzer" , it's free and fast!
once you have found 2 songs with the same BPM , you can mix them together. you can also adjust the speed of a song with the little thingy next to your play stop & record button the higher u put it the faster it will go.
Hope it helps you !
(sorry for my english , it's not my primary language ;)
|| (download link for bpm analyzer)
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